Too Selfish?

Readers, as you know i'm currently in relationship with someone. It's been 8 months now.

I was happy, well i am now. But there's just at one time that i feel so tired, so bored of us. And we can't do anything. I'm too afraid to tell him what's wrong, i feel like i've asked for too much, i feel nothing at one time, and i don't want to lose him. And he, in the other hand doesn't do anything either. He can't comfort me when i'm mad, can't understand why i'm mad, always go with the flow-he never had this spontaneus side that i wanted in him. He always said these when we were in argument;

"What you want me to do to keep you happy?"
"Fine, i'll just do what you want"
"I'm sorry, it's always my fault"
"I've never understood you, right?"
"I love you, i'm really afraid if i lose you"

Of course, you guys think that's the most beautiful lines, sweetest lines that a guy could say to his girl. And now maybe you think that i'm way over too much. Well maybe i am. Once again, i realize that i always wanted more yet i couldn't say it to him. I barely did. 

But what if i told you that in every argument he always said those and never change? What if i told you if most of the time we had an argument for the same reasons? What if i told you that sometimes he did the same mistake twice? What if i told you that he barely remember his promises?